Delaware Association for Children of Alcoholics
P.O. Box 2666  Wilmington, DE 19805
(302) 656-5554
Toll Free Number 1-877-302-ACOA (2262)
   
 
   

 

bulletIs alcohol a drug? Yes, alcohol is a powerful drug. It can cause impaired judgment causing individuals to misread emotions in themselves and others.
 
bulletAre children of alcoholics (COA's) more likely to marry an alcoholic? Yes, They are more likely than others to marry alcoholics - many COA's choose partners who are alcoholic or who have some other addiction.
bulletDo COA's have difficulty with relationships? Yes, a child who is loved on day and rejected the next may have trouble developing meaningful relationships.
 
bulletDoes alcohol have a long term effect on the brain? Yes, chronic alcohol abuse effects those nerve cells which perform certain vital functions, including the ability to gather information. Adolescents, because their bodies and brains are still developing suffer greater harm from alcohol than do adults.
 
bulletWhat are the characteristics of children of alcoholics?
 
bulletChildren of alcoholics tend to:
   
bulletbe fearful of other people, and experience difficulty with authority figures
   
bulletbe approval seekers
   
bulletisolate themselves
   
bulletbecome alcoholics, marry them, or both
   
bulletsuffer from compulsive behaviors
   
bulletlive life from the perspective of a victim
   
bulletfeel guilty when they assert themselves
   
bulletplace concern for others above concern for themselves
   
bulletsuffer from low self esteem
   
bulletfear abandonment
   
bulletbe addicted to excitement
   
bullethave difficulty expressing feelings
   
bulletconfuse love with pity and tend to "love" people they can "pity"
 
bulletIs there a way to "beat" alcoholism? Yes, don't drink!!!